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Anything is Possible - When You Stop Living Just for Yourself

led by the spirit May 21, 2025

Anything Is Possible… When You Stop Living Just for Yourself

The Shift That Opens the Door to Fulfillment

Ever feel like you're stuck in your own head? Constantly wondering how you're doing, what people think of you, what you're missing, and whether you'll ever get ahead? That kind of self-focus might seem normal—but it’s also exhausting.

Romans 8:5 puts it like this: “Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires…”

In modern terms, that means living life mainly for what benefits you.

It’s the pursuit of comfort, validation, and personal gain. And while it might look like success on the outside, it often leaves you feeling empty on the inside.

But there’s a different way to live—one that aligns with how God designed us. Galatians 5:22-23 outlines it perfectly: “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

These aren't just “spiritual traits.”

They’re actually life strategies that bring real, lasting satisfaction.


Here’s the surprising truth: When you live with these qualities leading the way, you stop obsessing over yourself. You start thinking about how to serve, connect, and add value to others. And ironically, that’s when you start to feel the most alive.

Living only for yourself might seem tempting in the moment—but over time, it leads to loneliness, anxiety, and a constant need for more.

On the other hand, when you invest in others, when you live with generosity, patience, and love—you build real joy.

Real purpose. Real relationships.

It’s not about being “religious.”

It’s about being wise. It’s about waking up and asking, “How can I make someone else’s life better today?”

And in doing so, yours becomes richer too.

You weren’t created just to cope with life—you were created to design a life that matters.

And when you live that way, anything becomes possible. Not because every moment is easy, but because every moment has meaning.

So don’t shrink your life down to survival and self-protection. Expand it. Open up. Serve big. Love well.

There’s never a dull moment when you’re living the way you were made to.

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